We go way back, and with that, comes many embarrassing stories and tales.

HBD to the one and only, AND Then!! We’ve been through a lot together, you and I, and we know waaayyy too many secrets about one another, BUT I wouldn’t change it for the whole world, because that means at the end of the day, I know you always got my back like I have yours. You’re a peach, Dyer, and I wouldn’t change you or our friendship for the whole world. Happy Birthday, dude. And always remember, no matter what, I got you.

This week has been.... challenging.

Work, home, socially, mentally, physically, emotionally. Let's be honest, with everything going on in the world these days, it's not that hard to just be exhausted with everyday tasks. Something as simple as actually pulling yourself out of bed and making yourself somewhat "presentable" for public feels overwhelming. Or, is that just me?

Either way, this week has been taxing to say the least and I for one am so happy that today is Friday. I don't care what anybody says or thinks, my big plans for this weekend are to do absolutely f*cking nothing. Why? Because I'm a grown ass adult and I can make that decision for myself if I want to.

Sure, I'll still clean my house and cook for my pups (yes, I cook them supper and lunch for the next day every single night, because that's just how I roll), but other than that? NO.

I don't wanna put on adult clothes, or work in the yard, or declutter anything. Basically, all I want to do is hang out with my pups, watch tv in my a/c, and drink booze. (I know, productive and not at all ridiculous, right?) And with my brother home this weekend, D will probably be running around with him for the most part, so I'll just be chilling and having some down time.

This week has not only taken as listed above, but it's also taken a toll on my wallet. Between hospital bills (blood draw), credit card payments, and regular bills in general, my wallet is like BBBIIITTTCHHHH, CALM DOWN!! Luckily, it was all for bills and not fun stuff (lucky probably isn't the right word, but we have a house, electricity, and water for another month!), so while it sucks, I don't feel guilt for it. 

So.... in a few hours, no one will be hearing from me or seeing me, because I will be hibernating (ie: hiding!) in my cave with Tayder, Spart, and Xur. If y'all need me, I'll catch you come Monday! 

Fifteen years late, but I finally watched The Family Stone.

Dani has been trying to get me to watch this movie for a few years now. She assured me that I would love it and she was right. I've been meaning to watch it much sooner than I did, but I kept not finding it on streaming and I rarely buy dvd's anymore (although, I do still buy a few on occasion). Then, this past weekend, I finally found it available (on Hulu with HBO Demand!). 

Since my body decided to wake itself up at three and five o'clock this past weekend *ugh* I decided that D and I should have a movie day/weekend. Because why in the hell not? Needless to say, he was still passed out, so I started early Saturday without him, beginning with the classic "Sleeping with the Enemy." He woke up in time to watch the majority of it with me (he actually really liked it!) and after it was over, I took my mortgage payment out to Aunt Mary and he went back to sleep.

Once I got home though, we started watching them again. Honestly, with all the rain we've had and how gloomy it was, it was the perfect weekend to lounge and watch movies. The next one on the list? 

The Family Stone. And dude, I was not disappointed. I think I loved it so much, because it really does feel like that's what it's like when you get a dysfunctional family all together, especially around the holidays. Coming from a malfunctional family myself, I really related to it. 

It not only became one of my top three favorite Christmas movies (White Christmas being the first and Black Christmas 2006 being the second), but it's become one of my favorite movies in general that I plan to watch all year round. In all fairness I watch the other two all year round as well, but you get the point. It was hilarious, emotional, and comforting. I'd suggest it to any and every one. I literally couldn't stop switching back and forth from laughing and tearing up.

Also, I wish I looked like Rachel McAdams. Which is also not new, as I've wanted to look like her years, but especially in this movie! She's all laid back with messy hair and mismatched/comfy clothes. But she still looks incredible, adorable, and cooky. And that right there, is what I aspire for.

My aunt knows me well and knows how to tug on my heartstrings.

When I unwrapped this, it brought a tear to my eye. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't overly emotional in general these days (what in the hell happened to me?!), but this right here? This definitely started operating the water works. I'm assuming she got it for my wedding day, but she also knew that I'd have it out and cherish it all year long. So, I wanted to say:

Thank you , Aunt Susi. You always know how to make me feel special and loved. You’re the greatest. ❤️